You won’t become who you are now without those stains you had before. – Engr. Vanlee

       Two years ago, I went through a painful experience. Many things happened that I never thought I could face those challenges. One thing I realized, is that thinking always of the pain and what I’ve lost will only make me weaker and cornered with the situation. That’s why I had a difficulty of moving on before.
       I am very thankful that God never leaved me. He made me realize the significance of my family. It was them who helped me to continue my journey and make a new beginning. Whenever I lost something, there will always be a new one that comes unto me. I am so glad to meet new friends. They have become my source of inspiration to live life to the fullest.
      When I looked back on my past, it made me laugh this time knowing that it made me stronger now. Just what my new friend had told me, “You won’t become who you are now without those stains you had before.” I know I’m not through yet with challenges, but I’m pretty sure I’m ready to face it.

After all those sweet moments, happy talks, and even those everyday-fights and most especially our ice cream bonding times…now, everything has changed. Everything is into silence. And as if nothing has happened. It’s as if we never met and know each other. I don’t understand why is this happening!

Oh! It’s been a long time again I haven’t made a post…Sorry guys…I’m just too preoccupied in my stUdies as of now. And I really had a hard time to manage my time with blogging. And besides that, I no longer have ideas of what to write in here. Hopefully, I could find another reason to become inspired of writing.

When I started to make blogs two years ago, I don’t know much about the internet marketing. I don’t even know that we need to promote our own website. All in my mind before, is just to put all my thoughts into words in the web. But then for a long time I’ve been searching about what my website can do with my business, I just learned about how to be on the first page. (Read the rest of this story.)

I just read a book telling about the different languages of love. These are Words of Affirmation, Quality Time, Receiving Gifts, Acts of Service and Physical Touch. Each of us has a primary love language in which we need to know especially from our love partner. But what do love language really mean? This simply tells about the need of an individual in a relationship. Sometimes, we misunderstood our partner that he or she doesn’t love us because the kind of expression of love that we expect is not being showed. This is the importance of knowing the primary love language of our partner to help us understand and make the relationship work.

But how can we speak each other’s love language when we are full of hurt, anger and resentment over past failures? The answer to the question lies in the essential nature of our humanity. We are creatures of choice. That means that we have the capacity to make poor choices, which all of us have done. We have spoken critical words, and we have done hurtful things. We are not proud of those choices, although they may have seemed justified at the moment.

Poor choices in the past don’t mean that we must make them in the future. Instead we can say “I’m sorry. I know I have hurt you, but I would like to meet the future different. I would like to love you in your language. I would like to meet your needs.” I have seen marriages rescued from the brink of divorce when couples make the choice to love. Love doesn’t ease the past, but it makes the future different.

On my next entries, I will share to you the meaning of every Love Languages I mentioned earlier.

Whew..I can’t believe this…

LOL..

Who would have thought that it’s gOnna happen? Of all the people I just met in this summer vacation, why does it have to be looked alike to someone I knew before whom I always anxiously think ‘what if we’ll meet again’? And I thought I was just dreaming when I saw his face. At my first glance on him, I was half out of my mind because I don’t know what to do. And I think, what made me always anxious has almost gave me an answer. BuMmm!!! Honestly speaking I’m not ready yet (that’s what made me realize) but I always wished to happen. Hahaha ^_^

Probably, you don’t understand what I’m saying here. But one thing I’ll let you know is, I’m happy. Hahahaha… Yah, I know what’s on your mind. Even my friends would say that I am just hallucinating and others wanted me to believe that it is a “sign.” Guys, I’m still awake hundred percent! I am not just hallucinating as a fruit of my anxiousness. I am with him for about 130 hours now, I always see him in a minute and I talk to him! If only I could take a picture of him and let my friends see it, then they would really withdraw what they just said… hallucinating. Am I?

Society today is ever so complex. In these changing times when nothing seems clear, one important challenge arises for us – to become mature people. Maturity, just like a heck lot of other things, means a heck lot different people. Some say that maturity is being responsible. Others would say that maturity is synonymous to martyrdom. And some insist that to be mature is to be boring. Many people may agree or disagree with the statement, all basing on how they perceive individuals. Maturity is determined in part through perception. But wait, this is not just whether people perceive you as mature or not – more importantly how you perceive the world.

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Global warming is a phenomenon wherein the earth’s surface temperature is rising in alarming rates. Common side effects are: (1) rising in sea levels causing massive floodings and disappearance of low-level land (2) rainfall distribution resulting to severe droughts in one area while extreme rains in its neighbor (3) change in the breeding pattern of some organisms resulting to the disruption of ecological balance that causes the extinction of many animals (4) shifts in water and air currents leading (5) climate change. Tha main cause of global warming is greenhouse gases (gases that trap the sun’s heat into the earth). This issue is no longer a myth. This is a reality that much of the developed world is now facing. Carbon foor printing has now become second-nature to most of the developed world. Sadly, it is now the developing worlds that has carried on the legacy of pollution. While the developing world’s coal-fired plants have been releasing a tremendous amount of carbon dioxide. This is a conundrum the world is facing right now.

I guess that the only real thing that we could do is to contribute to the effort. If each of us would avoid unnecessary use of electricity (turning on the lights when it is bright, turning on the TV and not watching,etc) the cumulative effect is that we will be able to save megawatts of power and prevent tons of pollutants being intoduced. Such an effort was tried during the Earth Hour last September…I just wonder if anyone who reads this have participated or not…

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Living in a world with a fast pace of development is never easy, it is like being cradled with too much wind blowing on you and you seem to be getting off. The same goes with having difficulty to show to the word the real you which leads to your soul starting to get rubbed out. So I was wondering about the purpose of life and its essence.

The true essence of life here on earth is happiness and we will never be able to find it unless we have our real souls with us. If we are happy, we do not think of how we look, whether we look fabulous or if we look like some gruesome being – as long as we are happy, we never need to pretend and we never feel humiliated. However, happiness can never be concealed, it is always seen in your eyes, along with your soul and with your true self. It is with the way you carry problems on your way and never stumble with it, rather, happily handling it over to God and letting him do his part.

Many of the people who persistently see the wrong side of others do so because they are subconsciously afraid to stand the wrong they do have. They hide their mistakes behind the mistakes of others rather than for them to rise from their own weaknesses.

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Yeah..as usual..I’m single every Feb.14 as a day of celebration for every lovers in the whole world.

There are few guys who were asking me for a date but then I always give them an eye view that I’m not interested yet to “that” thing.

I am not into rush…

God will just give it at the right time.